Beberapa Fakta tentang: Orang yang Akan Jadi Suami Gw. :D

Hmm, yah, ng.. terinspirasi oleh obrolan gw bareng temen gw yang aneh dan terfasilitasi oleh suasana kerja yang mendukung untuk menulis (baca: ngga ada kerjaan), gw ingin menceritakan sedikit tentang orang yang akan jadi suami gw.

1. Dia… sayang sama gw yang kayak gini. Egois, childish, cerewet, moody, plin-plan, sensitif, galak, gendut, dan banyak hal jelek lainnya walaupun gw juga ceria, penyayang, baik hati, sportif, suka senyum, rame, seru, smart, dan romantis

2. Dia… juga sayang sama keluarga gw. Keluarga gw kecil kok. Cuma ada bapak, ibu, adik cowok, dan adik cewek. Dan adik2 gw sangat suportif terhadap siapapun yang jadi pacar gw selama dia bikin gw seneng dan nggak nyakitin gw. Kalo bapak, agak2 ribet nih, biasanya kalo pacar gw dateng, pertanyaan yang pasti akan ditanya adalah: ‘kuliah dimana mas dulu?’ ‘IPnya berapa’ ‘Bapak Ibu ngasto dimana?’ bla bla bla. Khas bapak-bapaklah yaa. Tujuannya cuma mau memastikan dia itu baik buat gw. Kalo Ibu, selama gw senang, Ibu ngga terlalu ngurusin siapa pacar gw. Hehe. Eh tapi, ini calon suami deh yaa.

3. Dia… suka olahraga. Bisa susah gw kalo dia kurang berminat olahraga, karena buat gw olahraga itu… udah kayak makanan. Hehe. Kebayang banget kita bakal sering olahraga bareng di minggu pagi yang cerah, kita bakal sering nonton sepakbola langsung di stadion, atau kita bakal jadi juara turnamen tenis antar pasangan se-RT dalam rangka 17-an.

4. Dia… ‘ngemong’. Tau ‘ngemong’ kan? Bahasa inggris lho itu yang kalo dibahasa-indonesiakan jadi mengayomi atau bisa membimbing. Dia bisa jadi tempat bertanya sekalian ngasih solusi, bisa jadi penyemangat, bisa dimintain tolong apapun dan bisa jadi tempat nyandar. Oia, dia teman diskusi terbaik yang gw punya.

5. Dia… lucu. I always have a thing for a man who can make me laugh. Hehe. Adaaaaa aja tingkahnya. Suasana selalu jadi meriah banget kalo ada dia  gara-gara lawakan cerdasnya, komentar-komentar aneh bin nyata plus tingkahnya yang ceroboh. Dan ini jadi senjata banget ketika gw lagi marah. Siapa juga yang bisa tetep marah kalo dia minta maaf karena telat ngucapin anniversary dengan ngasih bunga yang ternyata terkirim ke alamat yang salah karna dia salah nulis alamat dan akhirnya gw ngga terima bunganya plus dia harus minta maaf dua kali dengan muka memelas? Haha. Bukan gw pastinya.

6. Dia… enak dipeluk. Hehe. Ini penting banget nih. Salah satu hal yang gue suka saat punya pacar adalah gw bisa minta dipeluk kapan aja. Jadi, ketika gw sedih atau hari gw lagi buruk abis dan pastinya gw butuh dihibur, hal pertama yang dia lakukan adalah memeluk gw, mencium kening gw, dan mengelus lembut punggung gw. Dan hari gw jadi lebih baik seketika. Pelukan kecil bisa menyatakan cinta yang besar lho menurut gw

7. Dia… seneng traveling. Hobi yang akhirnya ikut membuat gw senang menjelajah. Backpacking ke Gunung Semeru, holiday trip ke Bunaken, sampe akhirnya bulan madu ke Pulau Sicilia. WOW. Awesome! Kebayang rumah kami bakal penuh pernak-pernik hasil jalan-jalan. Hmm, kayaknya bakal butuh lemari baru nih

8. Dia… jago kerjaan bengkel elektronik maupun otomotif. Hmm, there’s something sexy about a mechanic. Kuat. Keren. Huahahahahaha. No other reasonlah. Ngebayangin dia kuat aja udah bikin gw gimanaaa gt

9. Dia… seneng ngasih kejutan. Ini salah satu yang bikin gw jatuh cinta setengah mati. Kartu ucapan selamat pagi di meja makan pas sarapan, kopi kesukaan di meja kantor, dan ajakan nge-date di make-up kit? Hmm, usahanya boleh tuh, Mas! Hehe. Usaha kecil untuk selalu membuat gw senang walaupun kadang jadi salah satu cara minta maaf pas berantem. Huh.

10. Dia… nggak pernah meremehkan chick-flick. Hihi. Gw penggemar chick-flick sementara dia penggemar action. No big deal lah. Kalo hari ini giliran dia nonton chick-flick, berarti gw akan nonton action next tym. Tapi yang paling gw suka ya itu, dia nggak sekalipun ngeremehin chick-flick. Membuat gw merasa dihargai deh. Hehe.

11. Dia… melihat gw seakan-akan cuma gw dunianya. Dia hanya butuh menatap gw begitu dan gw akan melakukan apapun yang dia minta termasuk masakin ayam cabe ijo khas nyokap yang jelaslah yang tau cara bikinnya cuma nyokap FYI, gw nggak suka masak, tapi gara-gara mata ituuuu, gw rela ngelakuin apa aja

Terakhir, si ‘Dia’ ini bisa gw temukan dimana yaaa? Hahahaha. Berbagai alasan ngga penting yah. Masalahnya adalah, semuanya penting menurut gw. Seandainya bisa minta ataupun memilih, gw bakal memilih yang paling banyak memenuhi fakta-fakta di atas. Kalo ada yang ngerasa termasuk dalam kriteria di atas, boleh lho ngelamar. Huahahahahahaha.

Doain gw cepet nemu si ‘dia’ yaaah.

Balikpapan: FRIENDS edition

Wow, I have already entered the 2nd month since I’ve arrived here in Balikpapan. I’ll tell the story from the very start. In some posts before, I have told you that I now am training as BPS Pertamina, right? This is the next phase.

It is called OJT. Actually the OJT itself has been started since middle May where we worked at Kwarnas getting to know ‘MySAP’ for a month before we all were distributed to the refineries. So, when the end of our togetherness in Jakarta was coming, everyone was excitingly (i wanna say worrily actually haha) asking ‘WHERE AM I GOING TOOOO???!!’

Everyone has to be prepared to be placed wherever, and since the place will be projected as our work-place-to-be, i wouldn’t confused if anyone was excited about it. And here I am. Balikpapan.

I might be one of the lucky person to have her request for being placed in Balikpapan granted. So I’m happy here. This was the answer of my prayer if I could say so. I asked to be placed wherever God say the best for me and accompanied with the best friend too. and look what i’ve got now, i’m in the place where I want to be with friends whom I thought were incredible.

That’s the theme in this post. My Friends (actually I haven’t quiet figured this city out, so.. I better tell you stories about my friends. Haha). I came here with 5 friends accompanying. Now, we live together in a house which is really comfy and of course, I selfishly choose the biggest room available.

First, I’ll tell you about a very-gentle-kind-handsome guy (actually they’re all guy ) named Hoho. Well, that name was strictly adapted from his full name. Achmad Dwi Nugroho. At first he was called by many of our friends Hohox, but I thought it was completely weird so instead of Hohox, I called him Hoho. He was one of the closest friend of mine. Well, that could be read as I depended a lot to him. I used to borrow his Laptop, eating his ice cream, asking him to help me on soooo many things, and now, his new role is my pick-up-and-deliver driver. Hahaha. Many thanks for you, Ho. YOU ARE THE BEST

Second, I’ll tell you about Rendra. Really, I don’t know how, but it’s as if we have the same brain. Everytime we looked at a thing, what we think about it first time is almost-always the same thing! Hahaha. He’s the youngest among us, so to me he’s like my brother and everyone really thinks so. He recently got himself a girlfriend and -if I may say- really devoted himself to her. Haha. He’s nice though, the one I enjoy having chit-chat with (aside of Hoho). and the one I can tell all my story to. and the one when doing ’shi*ty’ things always looked at me in the eye. Yeah, we’re having fun by doing ’shi*ty’ things together. Haha.

Third one, my long-time-friend from college, Fahmi. He calculated everything very fairly and carefully (well, it turns out that he is a little bit stingy in which he has admitted it himself. Haha). And he is a friend which I can’t synchronize my thought to. If Rendra is having my brain, I would say Fahmi has my opposite brain. Hehe. We almost-always debate on everything. I have this urge to keep reasoning with him rather than agreeing. and he complicates a lot of things too. Haha. Peace, Mi. But, he helps me organizing things, and by the way, he’s our leader. Good job, Mi!

Next one is Zaerul whom has-just-become father. Yipppiiieee. Congratulation, Mas. Your child will become our niece! Hihi. He has the maturity of a person who has married yet he can act like one of us (the single, I mean, and the young. Hahaha). Since he has the experience in managing household stuffs, he has helped me a lot with it – seems like I need help from many people – and I genuinely thank him for that. He once shared a simple lecture called Ho-Ren-So and it’s a really great things to share.

Last but not least, our Head Class, Iwan. He was the only one who originally comes from East Kalimantan, Tenggarong to be exact, the richest city in Indonesia. Wowwww. He has gone out from the city since high school, gone further to Bandung to study for college and now he’s back to work here. Yeah, well, not exactly in his hometown though, but 2 hours by bus isn’t that far, rite? anyway, he’s a great leader, and a good ’sambal’ maker too. and a cat lover (which really the opposite of me). Hehe.

That’s all. An introduction to ‘My Five’. The best part of having them around is that you feel safe and protected and they won’t let you bring anything heavy (actually, they even don’t let me bring anything ) and you always get a ride to the office! Hehehe. And I can practice my cooking ability. You won’t believe me, they practically eat everything I cook for them. Hahaha. But, I would say that the food is still representable and most importantly eat-able. Hahaha.

Yeah, still enjoying Balikpapan. Wait for the next post!

(Nearly) Motorcycle Accident :(

Well, it happened last night after dinner. We had this thought to have dinner outside, so we decided to go to Melawai. The dinner went well, we’re stuffed and ready to go home.

I jumped into passenger seat (I talked like it was on a car, didn’t I?), he started the machine and we were so ready to mingle in the traffic. But you know what happened?

We kinda stepped in some motorcycle wild race, and in a sudden, there was a motorcycle hit our motorcycle (fortunately only in the tyre) and the driver was lying on the road (well I guess not practically lying since he ran afterwards). I was SHOCKED. I mean, really?

I shaked during our way to home. and it didn’t stop until like 15 minutes after we got home. I have been in car accident before, but this time, without anything to protect me from anything (except helmet of course), it felt much more frightening.

I just glad that we’re okay. Hmmmmpppphhhh

Kemesraan

Suatu hari Dikala kita duduk ditepi pantai
Dan memandang ombak dilautan yang kian menepi
Burung camar terbang bermain diderunya air
Suara alam ini hangatkan jiwa kita

Sementara sinar surya perlahan mulai tenggelam
Suara gitarmu mengalunkan melodi tentang cinta
Ada hati membara erat bersatu
Getar seluruh jiwa tercurah saat itu

Kemesraan ini… janganlah cepat berlalu
Kemesraan ini… inginku kenang selalu
Hatiku damai… jiwaku tentram disamping mu
Hatiku damai… jiwa ku tentram bersamamu

satu.jam.saja.

jangan berakhir aku tak ingin berakhir
satu jam saja kuingin diam bersama
mengenang yang pernah ada

jangan berakhir karena esok takkan lagi
satu jam saja hingga kurasa bahagia
mengakhiri segalanya

jangan berakhir kuingin sebentar lagi
satu jam saja ijinkan aku merasa kisah kita pernah ada..

*nggak mau pisaaaahhhhh*

It grows ;)

Hmm. Tadinya ngga sengaja mimpi, sekarang beneran jadi impian. Hahahahaha. It grows to a big ‘like’ feeling. Parrraaaah.

I’ll miss you..

i.hate.goodbye. ;(

Seminggu terakir pikiran gw ngga bisa lepas dari kenyataan bahwa sebentar lagi kehidupan asrama gw bakal berakhir. Sepertiga udah berakhir minggu lalu, dan sekarang gw yang meninggalkan sepertiga lagi di belakang.
Satu kata buat ini adalah SEDIH. Itu sih yang gw bingung, 2 bulan doang lho kita bareng, tapi mau ninggalin aja beraaaattt banget! Paraaahh. Apalagi yang sepertiga ini ditinggalkan tanpa ada warna dari wanita-wanita.
Makin nggak tegaaaa. Hahahaha.
I quoted from a friend, ‘di sini 2 bulan ngalahin kuliah 4 tahun ya?’
Setudjaaaa. Kedekatannya emang luar biasa banget. Karena intensitasnya kali yaa. dari mulai bangun pagi bareng, senam, makan, belajar, main, smp hampir menjelang tidur, semuanya bareng-bareng. GIMANA GW NGGA SEDIH COBAAAA??!!! Hiaaaaaaa.
Semoga kedekatan kita nggak sampe sini aja ya kawan. We’re friends for life! and we’re a family those who would be there when you need.
Love you all. I hate goodbye. HUH.

Weird Dream.

Gila banget. Parah. Tadi siang saking gw tidur terus, sampe mimpi yang aneh banget. Aneh karna gw mimpiin seseorang yang ngga seharusnya gw mimpiin.

Jangan-jangan sebenernya he’s the one I want?

Biru.

Bagaikan langit di sore hari. Berwarna biru sebiru nilaiku. Haha. Alhamdulillah, pas nilai dibagiin, nilaiku banyak birunya yang berarti lumayan bagus. Hehe.

Tapi katanya gw masih bisa lebih baik lagi. SEMANGAT!

Just Plain Me.

Gw berada dalam keadaan yang mengharuskan gw bersikap datar. Harus? Karna tampaknya sebaiknya begitulah gw seharusnya bersikap.
Gw kembali berada dalam state ‘hampir gila’ kayak 2 tahun yang lalu. Ketika dy baik, hari gw bakal 100% membaik, tapi ketika dy nyuekin gw, hari gw alamat buruk seharian. Kalo ky gt terus-terusan, bisa gila dong gw. Secara emosi gw naik turun terus. Nggak baik ah ini mah.

Jadilah sebaiknya gw datar ajah. Demi kesehatan emosional gw. Hikss. Biarpun sebenernya nggak pengen sih.

Plain me. As always.